Limits of manifestation
QUESTION: Masters, I came through a very difficult divorce and have done much work on myself. It has helped much. I am also becoming independent and strong enough to look after my 3 young children. I am positive minded and generally very happy and optimistic. My question is – I have been putting out the energy for a compatible partner as well as a rewarding job that is able to give me full financial independence. I have been projecting it with manifestation skills and techniques for few years. I still have not found anyone and my job’s pay is average. What am I not doing, or doing, that is blocking this manifestation? ~Julie, UK
ANSWER: You are attempting to influence too many things about your life all at the same time so that the energy you are expending is insufficient to bring the desired response. One day the inner desire for companionship is so strong that it is the only message that gets sent – but it goes out a little garbled since, when you think about a mate, your past marital difficulties discolor the beauty of your thoughts and the possibilities available.
When you are able to take care of things financially, money doesn’t bother you too much until there is something extra you would like to provide for your children or the household, and then the meagerness of your income hits home. You then start putting more effort into bringing in better employment opportunities, taking away energy directed toward romance.
If these were not such all-encompassing factors in your life, you would be able to juggle both of them at once. But since they are both so enormous, you are going to have to work on them one at a time. Decide which is more vital to changing your status and then dedicate your time and effort in that direction.
It is possible to accomplish both of these manifestations when you properly apply the right effort. You have accomplished so much that you know it is possible to bring change into your world; just don’t try to rush it. Your plate is very full right now with family, work, and other responsibilities; establish a priority list of what will have the largest impact on your life.