Creating realities
QUESTION: Masters I am a journalist and been having monophobia (fear of being alone) for years. If I don’t feel well, I panic and have different reactions, such as tingling, shortness of breath, pressure on the face, numbness etc. I don’t fear people or animals, I’m afraid to be alone without someone to turn to in a time of need, especially at night. Because of this, I lose a lot. I want to travel but I only do that if I have company. I do not have friends to go with. I stayed in a bad marriage for years because of this fear. It disturbs me a lot and prevents me from doing what I like. I feel trapped and dependent. I’m not young anymore and time is passing by, but I cannot react. I’ve done analysis, past life therapy, but I still feel insecure and scared. ~Beti, USA
ANSWER: No one is ever truly alone in this world. You are surrounded by your guides and all the other souls in the nonphysical universe who wish you success on your journey. You cannot “feel” them because you have convinced yourself that if you can’t see something, it does not exist. The reality you have created for yourself requires a constant companion to authenticate what you are doing.
You have never reached a point of having confidence in yourself, learned what loving yourself feels like, or developed a sense of right and wrong in decision making. In other words, you take no responsibility for your life unless, or until, it is validated by others.
The way you treated your married life is a perfect example. Even though the feedback you got from your husband was demeaning and abusive, it was a type of validation that you were unable to take care of yourself and therefore had to remain in that untenable situation.
To change your life, you must believe that you can. Accept first that your soul is a piece of Source energy and, therefore, you have the powers and abilities of Source. That means you can create, manifest, and connect with all other souls in the universe. Next, you must believe that this is true and that you possess these abilities. Mull that over for a while until you start to know this is true and that it is now up to you how you use these powers.
You “know” you have the ability, so what’s next? You start to use the powers. Start simple with feeling your guides and nonphysical friends around you, cheering you on. Then bring to yourself an opportunity you have always desired through the use of your intention. Once it is here, use it, live it, love it, become it.