What has happened to me
QUESTION: Masters, I met a man a year ago from turkey and had an instance connection. I’ve never felt like this before. It feels like he is a part of me. The situation in turkey is becoming dangerous and his chances of making it out are pretty slim. Last week I was planning a trip to go see him and he called to tell me that it was over between us. My heart was broken and I felt more pain than I ever felt in my life. I love him too much and I know that he loves me too. No matter what his decision is, I feel like I have to respect it. I just want him to be safe and happy. My question to you is, who is this man and what was this relationship all about? Is he a soulmate, a twin flame or some kind of crazy infatuation? ~Danielle, Canada
ANSWER: This whole meeting was about feeling who you are and what is important to you. You have a connection with this man because he is a soul mate of yours and you have shared a number of lives before. This is powering the intensity of the feelings you perceive. He is not your twin flame.
He desperately was looking for a way to leave Turkey and be able to live in another country. You seemed to present that ability for him. While he has some feelings for you, he does not love you to the extent to which you love him and crave his attention. He has found other possible ways to be safe that do not involve having to move very far or get married.
He did not mean to hurt you because he is aware of the intensity of your feelings, but he senses you are much too infatuated with him and not looking at the practical aspects of your relationship. His only true concern at this time is himself.
You had created a dream life between the two of you without really knowing who he was; you were ready to change your whole existence to assist him. This situation came to you to show you that there are men out there to whom you can become attached.
You want a relationship so badly you are willing to sacrifice anything to get one. Honor yourself for the beautiful person you are – you are as important as any partner you might seek. Don’t surrender your life for that of another. Love yourself more, and then you will draw to you a person who is attracted to that love and will share it with you.