Helping another
QUESTION: Masters, I have a question about how to be a good companion to my boyfriend. We met four months ago and fell in love at first sight. Now we have been a couple some weeks, and it feels like he is my soul mate. We both came with a long “to do list” into this life. And it has been challenging. It feels like I am, as a soul, a bit ahead of him in the sense of setting myself free. He has chosen a really rough path and is still very much caught up in anxiety and physical pain. So much so that it controls his life. I have never met anyone as deep, wise, loving and warm hearted as him. We trigger each other in a very healing way. Now I wonder how I can assist him the best possible way on his journey to be free from all his pain and suffering. ~Bente, Norway
ANSWER: Your boyfriend is from your same soul group but he is not your twin flame. You had agreed to meet at this time in your lives to be a stimulator for each other. He has caused you to become very much aware of your powers and abilities. He thrives in your presence but cannot let go of the negativity of the third dimension.
Both of you have worked through a lot of the lessons you planned for this lifetime, but he gets caught up in hesitating to make decisions because he does not want to take responsibility for the outcome of his actions. He will escape into his own world so as not to face difficulties – which you perceive as anxiety and pain.
He needs to accept more love for and from himself. He goes through periods where he hates himself, blaming himself for not being able to move forward when he refuses to make the effort. If he can feel the unconditional love of his soul inside, he will began to accept that he is magnificent.
He doesn’t have to get to the point where he likes everything about himself, only to the point of loving the fact that he is here learning all about himself. When he accepts the responsibility of moving forward each day, throwing off negative thoughts and ideas and reveling in positive energy, his life will be without anxiety.
What you can do to help is to be there as a witness to his struggles without criticism but only support. With your intention, send him your unconditional love for this human journey he has undertaken. Infuse him with positive energy and try to help him see the negativity to remove it from his life.