Spirituality and relationships
QUESTION: Masters, I’m involved in a really tough relationship with someone very spiritual. We were living together but now he’s gone. He said his heart chakra needs healing because of his past relationships (with one ex he’s got a daughter) how can I reach his heart without hurting him? I want to help him. ~Georgia, Guatemala
ANSWER: Every soul is on an individual journey with absolute freedom of choice to decide each step. All you can do to assist your friend is send him unconditionally loving energy to help him seek and find the answer to his dilemma. You must let him decide his own destiny.
He is a player who goes wherever he feels the best. He does not care too much about those around him unless they are making noise and agitating him. He is trying to figure out what he thinks about his daughter and what, if any part, he should have in her life. This is making his heart ache because he is balancing his desires against the needs of others. This is new for him.
One of the largest steps of spirituality is accepting responsibility for the acts that you instigate. He has had a habit of running away instead of taking care of his duties. His practice of spirituality is: “If it is good for me, I will follow it; if it doesn’t serve me, I will do what I please.” He is aware of all the terms of spirituality and can talk as if he is extremely spiritual, but he is not.
He is a very energetic person so you feel the good positive energy he can draw to himself when you are with him. This makes you feel good so you want to be with him. During the time you were, you did whatever you felt he wanted you to do instead of doing what you wanted. It is time to take back your power and realize what it is you need to continue to grow spiritually.