Romance verses unconditional love
QUESTION: Masters, as I continue my process of moving towards ascension the more the world reveals its illusion to me. The thing that is puzzling me at the moment is that relationships seem a bit two-dimensional and limiting. I see people losing themselves in a synthetic “love” state that I don’t believe in any more. I am also finding it difficult to relate to people who talk about sex as fulfillment. Are we meant to pair off into couples at the moment? What is the love that exists between man and woman—is it different from unconditional love? ~Laura, England
ANSWER: The world is not revealing its illusion; you are changing your illusion of what you want to experience during this lifetime. You have come to the place where egoistic judgment is being replaced with spiritual evaluation. You are still being bombarded with other people’s life lessons so you are in the midst of their judgment.
A lot of souls come to Earth to experience physical love and all the possible complications it creates. It is only while in a physical body with all its nerve endings and emotional potential that one can achieve a physical orgasm. Some spend a lifetime seeking the perfect orgasm and that, to them, is fulfillment. This has nothing whatsoever to do with the spiritual aspects of the soul’s experience on Earth.
Being partnered with someone to meet the determined norms of society is also not a spiritual pursuit. Love between the human sexes is romance, a lesson people work on while in a body. The soul, which is sexless, is constantly in a state of unconditional love when in its essential energetic state at Home; the love extends to everything that exists and is positive bliss. One of the soul’s desires is to be able to feel that unconditional love with its human body—but few achieve that goal.