Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters can you please explain spiritual / energy cords? I have a man in my life whom I have shared experiences with for the last year and as a result have learnt a lot about myself. We have now both agreed to end the intimate relationship but still remain friends. But I can’t stop thinking about him, he is always on my mind. Is this to do with a spiritual energetic connection between us? If so how can I cut this “cord” or do I have to accept he will always be in my everyday thoughts? Many heartfelt thanks for your guidance and knowledge. ~Michelle, United Kingdom

ANSWER: You are not being tied to this man and your memories by a spiritual connection other than the learning you have shared between you. Once you have experienced something you can not undo it at will. How prominent it becomes in your daily life is completely up to you.

You shared something so intense that until you replace it with something else, it is going to take over your consciousness. While you did call off your intimate relationship, you are too drawn to him to cut off all contact. You still have him on a pedestal as the one who permitted you to see some things you needed and could not observe alone.

The things that your time together allowed you to figure out about yourself have made him an important part of your life. But, as we always say, each soul creates the reality they want to live. When you have realizations front and center in your mind, they are like beliefs and take a prominent place in your thinking until you decide to replace them with something that is more important or necessary in your life at that time.

Romance has always been vital in your life and he provided a stable – for a while – access to it. Finding another who will love you as he did and share with you their hopes and dreams, which he never completely was able to, will erase his insistent energy from your mind.

An energy cord is much more than this physical bonding you had with him. A spiritual connection begins on the Other Side before you even come to Earth. You did not make any specific agreements with this soul before coming. He was just available to you when you needed him to be.

To begin the process of creating a new environment, you can start with a visualization of an ideal world containing all the factors you still wish to explore. Bring them in one at a time until you have your world and he is written out of it.

QUESTION: Masters, I keep having awful visions that seem to be set during a war. I have tried to do a past life hypnosis for myself but the emotions I feel are very strong, so I’ve had to stop them. Sometimes I don’t see anything, just feel anxiety and sorrow. I’m not sure what country it was in and what war it exactly was. Are the visions and feelings I’ve had real? How can I face these emotions? ~J.R., Finland

ANSWER: You have spent a number of different lives exploring the ramifications of being in the military and going to war in particular. These had various issues attached to them: betrayal, cowardice, self-confidence, and guilt, just to mention a few.

It is no wonder that self-hypnosis doesn’t allow you to step back far enough to deal with the strong emotions. An easier way to resolve and release each issue is to follow an emotion back to its origin. When something in daily life triggers a feeling, ask your higher self to take you to the cause. This should be a single incident that you can then understand, learn from, and let go. This will work well when you don’t see anything and are only feeling the emotion.

If the emotions become too intense to work with, use the technique of stepping away and going into observation mode. If you are a witness seeing things from the outside, you are not so affected. You can then examine and work with the situation to understand and dispel it.

Have patience with yourself and these events. They are hanging around because they were too overwhelming for you when they occurred the first time. You have much more information now about how life lessons work. This takes the fear out of facing them. It does not, however, reduce the intensity that you will feel.

QUESTION: Masters what is the essence of compassion and what is the true nature of illusion of time? How are they related? ~Malavika, India

ANSWER: Compassion is a third-dimensional concept since it has a corollary negative aspect. Society says to understand another human you need to put yourself in their shoes. It is a very important part of many religions, normally talked about as “it is more blessed to give than to receive” or “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” These precepts indicate that you have a responsibility to take care of others in order for them to receive their due, for you to be a good person, and so that society doesn’t have to take care of them.

Compassion is not a spiritual concept because its completion requires people on two sides of an issue – the giver and the receiver. It involves the giver’s issuing a judgment on the receiver by saying they do not have something which they need and the giver therefore will provide it – whether the receiver thinks they need it or not.

A spiritual journey is a singular event where you spend time understanding the life lessons you chose before coming and also try to learn who you are as a soul and what powers and abilities are a part of your essence.

Everything is energy and energy is everything. To create a situation where you are able to share a stage with others, you have to agree to the environment where you are meeting and interacting. You are taking the energy that is you and creating an illusion that is shared by another so that they perceive the same setup as you. This is an illusion of time since it occurs at the same time and location for one person as it does for another, so they may meet at a mutually agreed place.

An illusion of time is necessary for a person to show compassion because the receiver must be present for the emotion to be directed at them. If they did not share an illusion, they would be invisible to one another. Then the giver would not be able to render their judgment and deliver their compassionate energy to the other.