Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I want to understand my mother better. Issues have resurfaced since closely being with my parents (92) with their health issues and moving them into a retirement home. We know my mother’s inner dialogues have never been loving and that contributed to her rages when we were young. I also got that a lack of correct nutrition directly contributed to her intense irritably in her midlife. From ages 45 – 60s, was that narcissism that made her so “crazy” especially around Anita Bryant times, and not wanting to get family therapy? We tread a thin line in knowing when to push her and when she is being a princess. What have I misunderstood about her and what need I pay attention to in her remaining years. (You know I know we are all happy Source oversouls plotting out our lives for fun & learning.) ~Margaret, USA

ANSWER: Your mother has always been a very bitter person living in negativity. She is afraid of everything and strikes out against people so they won’t recognize her fear. When she compares herself with others, she always finds herself wanting so she tries to make all those around her as miserable as she feels; it is her way of hiding in full view of others.

She watched you as children and was jealous because she thought you were having a better life than she had, so she tried to ruin it in any way she could. This was all part of her chosen life lesson of recognizing she is a soul with Source energy. She feels abandoned and abused.

Lack of good nutrition did affect her nervous system and glands, but that was only secondary to the choices she made. She had to fight a sense of unease due to a weak constitution, but she chose to be unhappy and mad all the time. She would not get therapy because then someone might know how she hated herself and was always afraid. She had an idea of how to make herself feel better, but she chose not to do it.

You have a journey of your own, independent from hers. You have no spiritual responsibility for her life and choices unless you choose to be involved – then you are giving up your power to her and saying “do with me what you want.” She is like an animal or a child, seeing how far she can push you in order to feel superior. Every time you give into her, she rejoices in her power.

For your own sanity, maintain control in your world and don’t give in to her demands. She is always testing to see how much control she has. Honor yourself and live your own life.

QUESTION: Masters, I have been thinking about my ex-husband. Is he good for our children? All these 17 years he has promised a lot but doesn’t do what he promises. My children are so disappointed in him. I have been in contact with him because of our children. It is quite hard. Do he and our two kids have contracts which remain to be done? I think he makes more bad than good to our kids. Do we have to go through something? I’ve done a lot to insure he and the kids have interaction. I think that I let him to do what he likes to do/ or do not? I feel I support this relationship maybe too much. He is alcoholic and has other troubles with his head. The kids are coming the second. So sad, I think ~SV, Finland

ANSWER: Your ex never matured. His world is all about himself and what he wants. He feels no obligations to anyone else. He maintains contact only if he feels he can get something in return. Your children chose to have him as a father so they could observe one way of treating others and to make choices based on that experience for their own learning.

Your children are learning the ineffectiveness of expectations and relying on others who have only their own interests in mind. Let the children decide how much contact they wish to have with their father – do not push the interaction. They need to have some discretion in their lives.

There are no right or wrong answers to this situation, only variables to be explored. Let him and the children find their own balance of participation. Forcing the issue empowers your ex to think he is important in his children’s lives, and he is not –  except to let them see what they could become if they followed the type of existence he has chosen.

Teach your children that they are responsible for their future by the choices they make. They have no obligation to anyone but themselves. They have freedom of choice in every aspect of life. They can choose their friends and their contacts, even with parents. They are old enough now to appreciate their choices.

ANSWER:  Kryon is a group of nonphysical souls who deliver messages to those in human form through their channel, Lee Carroll. As with all channeled messages such as those delivered through Lee, Esther Hicks (Abraham), and our channel, Toni Winninger, they are for information purposes to assist souls having a human experience to make the choices necessary to create a reality that will allow them to learn.

Not every soul is ready to receive messages of a particular channel. Messages are delivered with various degrees of wisdom. Some are appropriate for beginning awakening, others for intermediate or advanced. People must take the information delivered and see how it makes them feel. Do they resonate with the teaching? Can they use the information to help them exercise their freedom of choice to solve the lessons they chose before coming to Earth?

All channels who are able to separate their conscious thoughts from the message they deliver, and have no ego-related intent for their work, are of integrity and a source of teaching for those who are at the stage of development they are addressing. There are no absolutes within the duality of Earth – all variables have to be considered in evaluating the benefit of messages. This veracity may vary from time to time. The messages of Kryon, Abraham, and Us (Masters of the Spirit World) are basically all coming with truth and love.

As we always say, never accept the importance or authenticity of any channeled material unless it feels comfortable to you. You then make it your own by incorporating it into your belief system and therefore your reality. There is no time schedule for when people are ready to take the responsibility of making their own decisions about their spiritual journey.

Your husband is curious but not yet committed. Expose him gradually to see what his tolerance is to spirituality. You will not know when he is accepting until you give him the choice.