No self-confidence
Tuesday, October 19th, 2010QUESTION: Masters, going to do my job each day causes me to feel humiliated, frightened, incapable and overwhelmed. I am not sure exactly why I have these feelings. I am afraid if I change jobs this process will just repeat itself as I feel the problem is contained more within me than in the external circumstances. I feel very stuck, traumatized by all this, but somehow I still need to get money from somewhere. What should I do? ~Gareth, England
ANSWER: You are absolutely correct that a new job will not help at this time. You also have come to the correct conclusion about your dilemma—the problem is completely contained within you. You have no self-confidence or faith in yourself and your decisions. You hide from the lessons that would tackle and solve these problems and lead you to accept responsibility for this journey you are on.
You had many traumas early in this lifetime that are now forcing you to look into yourself—and you are refusing. We suggest that it is time to consult a professional who can assist you in reviewing and dealing with these blockages. A hypnotherapist, EFT practitioner, coach, or therapist can help you, but you have to make the decision.
You are as marvelous as any other soul. You are broken off from Source and therefore are all-powerful, knowing, and creative. You have to get to the point of accepting that you possess such abilities and then start using them. Right now it is easier for you to go around miserable rather than work to correct your self-image. Take baby steps into the world of confidence and control. You can do it if you are willing to put in the effort.