Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters, recently I got involved with a man who took the initiative to establish a relationship of light friendship with me. After two months of talking on the phone, and meeting up a few times, he asked me out on a date. He said he had no girlfriend after asking me about a boyfriend. We went out twice. On the second date I slept with him and we spent the weekend together. The next weekend he told me that he had just got out of a relationship the week prior to asking me out. I realized that he had hidden details about himself during our conversations. I am the rebound girl and I am devastated. At this point I am obsessing about this situation–hurt because I wanted to have a fun, playful, emotional baggage-less affair. Was I supposed to learn something else from this besides don’t sleep with a guy on the second date? I’m obsessed.       ~Kelly, USA

ANSWER: This whole situation was about learning about yourself and the way you create anticipations and, because of that, don’t notice the obvious signs. You wanted a baggage-less affair and that was actually what you got-a one-night stand to help someone on the rebound. You were unable to pick up on his neediness or his desperation to have a relationship.

What you have to do now is deal with your obsession. The predominant feeling is of being used. To feel used, you have to have had an investment in the outcome of the affair. Is that baggage-less? No. Take it for what it was. You told yourself you wanted a fling and that was what you got. What you really wanted was something more permanent or else you would not still be obsessed with the lies he told you.

If you had been true to yourself and admitted that you wanted something that would last a while, you would not have jumped into bed so fast. When you want something more lasting, whether for fun or seriously, you are more particular about the background of your partner.

Let go of the fact that you were not seeing the hidden emotions he was hanging on to. Just know that next time you need to get to know the person better if you want it to last. You can only feel hurt over a past event if you need to feel hurt. Accept this as a tool of how not to behave in the future and move on.

QUESTION: Masters, thank you for everything in my life, good and bad. Although I do not realize it many times, I am aware of your constant presence and interaction in my life, and I want to thank you for that. I would really like to thank my guides and have some sort of validation of who my guides are. I am feeling disconnected and need to find my way back. Feeling a little lost, I would like to have a signal or signpost to affirm which direction to take. Lately I have been drawn to all things paranormal because I am searching for something. Ghost shows, UFO shows, Bigfoot investigations, and other sorts of mysteries-why am I drawn to mysteries and enigmas like this?   ~Lambert, USA

ANSWER: More and more you are sensing your essence and that of others around you. The problem is that you have not been able to reconcile your internal knowing with the third-dimensional acceptance from those around you. To balance this you have decided you need physical proof, then you will know what you know you know. Welcome to the human experience!

Man wants validation of all his intuitions-and oh, it must be physical. The sense of simply knowing that something exists won’t do because you can’t touch it or share it with someone else. Take for instance the non-physical assistance from your guides: even though you know they are there, you can’t see them, and will not completely believe in them until you receive some type of physical sign. Oh, by the way, to thank them just think about your gratitude and they will know.

In almost all cases the spirit world will not spend time in holding your hands and giving you physical signs. Their sense is that if you do not feel them and sense their sincerity, then you are not ready to receive direct assistance from them. Your own subconscious is telling you, in the interests it has compelled you to pursue, that there is more out there than the physical.

The paranormal things that you are studying are other people’s searches for that same physical proof. A lot of the results indicate that there is evidence of things the public does not accept, but actual proof is elusive. How do you feel about this or that phenomenon? Are you going to accept its existence only when you see it for yourself? This is an example of your spiritual search as well.

The question now is: are you going to rely upon your inner feelings or are you always going to demand tangible proof? The choice is up to you. Reach out and seek what is part of this lifetime’s belief system and stop spending time trying to prove your intuitions.

QUESTION: Masters, when I am writing during the night, the words flow fast and thick. Where are these words coming from? The subject matter is current, but varied.   ~George, Canada

ANSWER: At night you are relaxing your conscious, manipulative mind and allowing the flow of your unconscious higher self to come through. You are in a type of meditation which quiets the thinking mind. This is a pure state that allows you to tap into the flow of the energy of the universe. You are hearing the discussions that one aspect of yourself, in a higher dimensional level, is having with other souls in that same higher dimensional level.

This is a form of automatic writing. For some people the ideas come from outside of themselves. You are only conscious of conversations and discussion in which you are taking part.