Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: I wrote nearly a year ago about a cheating husband. I was afraid to leave due to my children’s happiness and an unknown future. I rationalize my decisions for staying, as trying to keep the family together. He says it won’t happen again however I don’t feel any emotion behind his words. A few weeks ago a man came into my life as a client. We kept it professional due to marriages and work. He has issues in his marriage-on different paths. He said he feels like he has known me all his life. We have led similar paths, experiences and are drawn on a soul level. When he left the center I felt untold pain. I could not stop thinking of him until I read an article on twin flames, which mirrored everything I felt. Does this mean anything or is to realize what is missing? ~Debbie, UK

ANSWER: Twin flames are the last particle of Source from which you were broken off as you became an individualized soul. Twins cannot stand to be apart when they are both in human form at the same time. This man is not your twin or you would not have been able to resist each other and he would not have been able to move on. You are both from the same soul group and have spent previous lives together.

It was determined that he would come along in your life at this time so you could decide whether it was beneficial to you to remain with your husband. Your husband is very confused about his life and his “needs.” He still loves you and the children in his own way but is not totally committed to you. He cannot tell you with any degree of certainty what he will choose to do tomorrow.

Your husband is also a member of your soul group and was chosen to present you with these life lessons. Nothing is right or wrong in a spiritual journey; everything is just a matter of choices. Your freedom to choose your tests goes to every layer of existence. The meeting with your client was for you to become reacquainted with romantic moments and to decide if you were ready for another adventure.

This encounter has made you aware of what you have been missing in your marriage and what life can be. You now have the ability to decide where to go from here.

QUESTION: Masters, I’m at a wedding, from my point of view, happy for 15 years. We have a couple of beautiful children. He was 13 years old and she was 6 years. I love my children too. In recent times, after we returned to live near her family, things have changed a lot. Expressed willingness to separate due to the negative with my wife started to look at life, she went into a depressive state and this has left me in an undecided way. My wife keeps saying “cannot bear to take care of our children”, “was not made for marriage” among other statements. I tell her to try to see the positive side of things, but to no avail. My intuition says that she is a good person, but I am seriously considering the possibility of leaving our marriage. Can we try again, changing away from her family? ~Gerson, Brazil

ANSWER: Your wife is making her choices based upon the pressures being placed on her by family and friends. She yearns to be able to “play” as she did when a little girl. She does not want to have any responsibilities for a husband or children. She is acting like a spoiled little child and her family thinks it is fine because they have her back with them again. You were never considered to be quite good enough for their daughter.

Her negativity and depression comes from those with whom she is now associating. None of them see the world as positive and they feed off each other’s negativity. It is almost as if they are having contests to see who can be the most negative. They are even gathering negative beings (discarnates) into their presence.

Just moving away from her family will not change the way she is acting at this time. She needs to want to be a wife and mother and not see it as drudgery. Underneath all the negativity is a good soul but it is buried quite deeply. It is impossible to get people to change the way they think or behave unless they want to change. Nothing you do will make her change.

The choice then becomes yours: put up with her under these conditions or move on. Your wedding is over, and a lot of choices have to be made by everyone to get it back to where it was.

QUESTION: Masters, I have always hated my father and he has always hated me. I feel he also has an evil entity attached to him that hates me too. In fact, whenever I get empowered, I get a nasty email from my father or a phone call or whatever trying to disempower me. He always tries to make my life miserable. The worst of all was when I asked for help for a small down payment on a condo 12 years ago. He wouldn’t do it and now real estate has gone insane. I want to know how to at least stop the cords and attacks from him and the entity. ~Neil, Canada

ANSWER: You and your father have shared many lifetimes, always with intense lessons between you. Hatred is one of the most intense emotions possible. When you hold on to hatred, it colors every other dealing you have with that person.

What you feel about your father is so severe that it radiates out from you and can be felt, not only by him, but by anyone around you. When you asked him for money he felt your anger and thought, “He can’t even put his anger away long enough to come peacefully to ask for money; why should I help such an ungrateful, hate-filled person?”

Your father is a very negative person but one who is very energy perceptive. He is attuned to your energy and can feel when things are getting a little more positive for you, so he reaches out and takes your growing positive mood to feed on the positive energy. You have been letting him do this by entering into a control-drama scenario with him. Let him go; ignore his attempts to draw you in.

People can take your power from you only if you allow them to. If you continue to carry this hatred for your father, any contact from him will strip you of power because the hatred, being so negative, lets your energy flow to him. If you accept that he is someone from whom you cannot learn in this lifetime and therefore do not need, you will be able to release the hold he has on you and take that negative space and fill it with unconditional love.

Enlightenment is releasing negative lesson energy and choosing to replace it with positive thoughts. He is not learning his lesson about hatred, but that does not mean you have to continue letting yours influence your daily life. Choose to be happy, peaceful, and loving. You have the choice to cut off all contact with him unless or until he becomes a more positive person.