Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I would like to enlighten me on what differentiates children born of Caesarean delivery, the born vaginally, with respect to divine protection. One therapist told me about contracts that the dark side is with those born by Caesarean section. I did the therapy session together with my daughter, but then came me all doubts. Did I do well? And yet he told me that eight out of ten children who are currently incarnated come to the service of evil. I would like to have your understanding in this matter. ~Cristina, Portugal

ANSWER: All souls who inhabit humans when they are born are pieces of Source energy and therefore a part of the universe. There is no difference between the essence of one and that of another. All have guides and angels helping them on their journeys, when requested, and not one is forced to do anything they had not previously considered and chosen.

The experience of a Caesarean section delivery is more the choice of the mother rather than the baby. The mother faces all kinds of mental and emotional issues surrounding the inability to have a vaginal (natural) delivery, which fulfill the requirements of the mother’s life lessons. Unless the child is in distress, the soul just observes what is occurring.

Contracts concerning life issues are made before birth, when the soul is still in the unconditional love of the universe. There is absolutely no negative energy present in that environment, so it is impossible for a soul to make a contract with a negative force that cannot exist outside of the Earth duality. Since there is no “dark side” at Home, and the child does not choose the Caesarean for the mother, what you have been told is not correct.

Souls may choose to come in order to experience evil as a life lesson. Their job then is to see the negativity and choose to exchange it for positive love energy. All life lessons start in negativity, so it may be said that children begin in an energy of evil, but that has nothing to do with how they enter into the world – whether through the birth canal or surgical intervention.

QUESTION: Masters, my husband and I have recently been discovering our spirituality and it feels great! Our relationship has been tested over time. We are an interracial couple, together for 7 years and his family disapproves of us because I am not from their caste. Our differences were never an issue to us and we are way better people together than we were apart. We eloped one year ago. His family still doesn’t know and still dislike me because of my race. How can my soul grow from this? Right now I’m having a hard time not being angry at them. How can I learn to let go and forgive? My husband on the other hand is such a forgiving, kind soul. He really is my better half. ~Holly, USA

ANSWER: Congratulations on living your own life and not listening totally to the prejudices of others. You and your husband chose your diversity as the impediment for your life lessons. You made a contract before coming to Earth to make this so and to be there for each other.

Spirituality deals primarily with getting to understand who you are as a soul and stepping away from the societal norms, which are governed by the ego. The ego uses judgment to make all its decisions. People take a particular “side” about everything: it is good or bad, better than or less than, right or wrong. This forms the basis of their personality and the way they interact with others.

Spirituality steps away from judgment and uses evaluation instead. The only question becomes: Is that a place I think I can learn something, or is it something I wish to stay away from? Nothing is right or wrong in the spiritual sense; it is merely a lesson someone has chosen to learn. You then become a “witness” to the choices others have made about their opinions, without judging if they differ from your own.

Your journey is defining who you wish to be and accepting who you are. You let go of the way others think your life should be; that is their problem to deal with, not yours. Don’t worry about the insensitivity of your in-laws. Be yourself, be happy, live your life.

Your soul grows with each bit of wisdom it takes in. The fact that you can only live your own life and can never affect another’s unless they allow you to is a fantastic realization. Let go of trying to control or convert your husband’s family – they have to make their own decisions and learn to live with them. Decide to be unaffected by their tunnel vision. They can’t see the love you share with your beautiful mate because they are blinded by their rigid upbringing. Don’t let any of this tarnish your life and love.

QUESTION: Masters I decided to divorce from my marriage of 5 years on the beginning of this month and I feel so right about it. Very recently I met someone, we have seen each other and I feel a strong feeling growing for him, he said he wants to be in a serious relationship again and fall in love. At the same time he says that is still taking time to open his feelings, it has been 3 years since his last serious relationship. I want him but I’m afraid of him not falling in love for me. I don’t know what to do and how to behave. When I look at his eyes and I could just say I’m in love with him, but I won’t. Please masters how can I handle this feeling and insecurity? ~Luciana, Finland

ANSWER: Be yourself; don’t do things just because you think they will please him or cause him to fall in love with you. At the same time, be honest with him and how you feel. He is stuck in the disaster of his last relationship and fears getting involved again. He is in a time warp of wanting the good things he had before and then reliving the tragedy that was his association with the other woman.

To reawaken his desire to join with another, you must give him a reason to become vulnerable to someone again. A true sharing relationship requires one to be open and truthful in all their feelings with the other. When he was open to his last companion, she used his inner feelings and fears to manipulate him and emasculate him. He needs to feel safe and not controlled.

If you are looking for a fast connection, he is not the one for you. It is going to take time for him to trust you and what you have to say. You already sense this about him, and that is why you have the insecurity and feelings that you do.

It is possible to grow into a very strong relationship with him if you do it slowly and with much communication. Encourage him to be open and truthful with you about his feelings and fears. Talk over the hesitancies you each are experiencing, and together, work out a comfortable solution.

If you truly feel for this man, don’t give up. Take the patience that it will require to make him feel secure and happy again. You both will learn and grow from this effort.