Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters, I’ve tried to find the lessons in various relationships. It seems as if I’m stuck in a pattern with partners and focusing on their needs, which I thought was a positive thing. I struggle with a lack of a physical relationship. I’m wondering if it’s possible to have a real lasting romantic relationship without the physical aspect. Should sex be important in our lives at all in this human experience? Is this attachment to sex an addiction or just desire? ~Erica, US

ANSWER: Society has convinced you that it is your job to focus on the needs of others instead of your own. Souls come to Earth to find out who they are as souls and to understand their powers and abilities as pieces of Source. It is a singular journey, not one requiring a partner. Society has brainwashed all humans into thinking that they need a partner to fulfill themselves during their human existence.

In your case, you do need a romantic relationship to help you find out who you are. You need to be honored and treated as the divine feminine energy of which you are composed, not as a servant to the desires of another. Whether this includes a physical sexual element is to be determined by you and your companion.

Sex is not a necessary part of a romantic relationship. It is, however, something that can only be experienced on Earth while souls have physical bodies. Again, society has indicated that the only purpose for two humans to be together is to have sexual communion and to bring offspring into the world. That is not a spiritual concept or necessity.

Sex is beneficial to the physiological health of the human body. It releases hormones that make the body “sing,” releases mental and physical stressors, and creates a closeness that only this act can bestow. It may be a desire or sometimes an addiction. Mostly it is an intimate sharing uniting two persons. Is sex absolutely necessary? In the spiritual sense, there are no absolutes and nothing is right or wrong. In a physical sense, it is a reward for putting up with physicality.

QUESTION: Masters we have a beloved cat, two veterinarians missed the earlier stages of glaucoma, by the time she was properly checked she was already blind in one eye. I know we have to live in the present, but could I have done anything different to change the outcome? Our pets are so pure and come to our lives to teach us unconditional love. Why the suffering? How are these types of life lessons chosen? Do we (pet owners) make them sick with our negativity? What is her lesson and what is mine? ~Rachel, Canada

ANSWER: Are you sure that sight is integral to the happiness and contentment of your cat? Step back and observe who is more bothered by the resulting present condition of your cat: You are more upset than she. She took it in her stride once the point of no return was reached. She is not suffering, just adjusting to finding ways to compensate.

In addition to providing lessons in unconditional love, our pets also facilitate life lessons. You assume she is suffering because if this happened to you, you sense you would be suffering from the effect it would have on your daily life. You are studying issues of control – as in, how much do you really have?

You were not an expert in cat conditions and therefore had to rely on the people you assumed had the knowledge. You took as many steps as you could to diagnose this condition, but it was out of your hands. Let go of the blame and guilt you are feeling. There was nothing further you could have done. That was all part of the control cycle – you can only control what another allows you to control.

Humans do have an impact on their animals – by agreement, of course. Your cat consented to allowing you to experience this sense of helplessness. In most cases, since only 1% to 2% of animals have souls that study life lessons, almost all of the agreements are for the humans’ benefit.

Animals are sensitive to negativity, and an owner who harbors a massive amount of negativity shares it with their pets.

QUESTION: Masters I’m having a very hard time in my life right now. I’m still not in love with the father of my unborn baby and I think I’m trying too hard to bond an emotional connection with this guy. I want to be with him for the sake of the baby and he says he wants the same but I guess all we feel for each other is lust. He’s dating several women at the moment and I could care less as long as we raise this baby together. Is he being honest when he says he wants me as his wife? I just want my baby close to its father from day one and I hate the idea of my child having a stepfather. What are his real intentions? Why is this happening to me? I’m very stressed out ~Miamite, England

ANSWER: The father of your child is going through a wild phase right now and has no intention of settling down; hence all his various girlfriends. He definitely plans to have input into his child’s life but would rather not be close enough to have to change diapers and have sleepless nights. You are never going to be able to convince him that you need to do this together – as in one household.

When children choose the humans who will be their parents, they are aware of the relationship that is ongoing. Your child knows that you are not together and that, as much as you are trying, the father has no desire to get married. He may sometime in the future, if he doesn’t like one of his current girlfriends better, decide to finalize the union and get married. There are too many variables right now to say this is a given.

This is happening at this time so you can see what your actions created. You had lustful sex without taking sufficient precautions, and a baby was the result. You now have to take the responsibility for your actions. You cannot go backward and dictate the relationship between you and the father, because sex – and now this result – was not considered at all.

Your child will be aware of the emotions and energies that fill your household. Having a man in the house who feels forced to be there will send your child the wrong message concerning love and parenting. You say you don’t want a stepfather in the child’s life, but if the man truly loves you both, it can have a very stabilizing effect.

This is happening to you for you to work out these lessons and be more aware of consequences when you do things for emotional reasons only. You are an adult now and responsible for all the results of your actions – in this case it even involves a third person because of your carelessness.

Sex without love is a human bodily need sometimes. But if you engage in same, you must be prepared for pregnancy without a stable connection to the father. Then it is up to you alone to decide the future, since the baby is inside you and not the father.