Why do I attract this element?
QUESTION: Masters, I noticed in my whole life that every time I am balanced, gaining confidence & respect, I attract guys who are sexually driven. They see me as a sex object too. I am flattered, however I desire a man who wants me for all that I AM. Btw, my base chakra is good & more fired up especially when I am all balanced. I also attract lots of people with problems and I am very happy to spiritually counsel them online but do not know how to generate income out of this gift. I do still love all my life experiences & lessons. ~Heart & Soul, Singapore
ANSWER: Why would you be flattered to be seen as a sex object? Isn’t that sending a message out to the male population that you gladly assume that role? You are advertising energetically for those sex-crazed men that you are willing and able to be their sex slave. That is not honoring yourself. When you see yourself as a physically sexual person, you are accepting that as your identity instead of seeing yourself as a spiritual person within a female body.
Pride in the state of your root chakra over your other chakras is saying you crave the sexual act over a spiritual conversation or exploration of where your partner is on his soul journey. Sexual intercourse is a minute piece of the soul’s journey. Exterior love from another human doesn’t connect with the soul, just the body. Finding the unconditional love that is within is vital to self-awareness. Strive for a connection to the universe when you are balanced. Meditate and communicate with your guides.
You are very empathic concerning the energy of others. That allows you to know intuitively how to help them. They sense your abilities and are drawn to you. It is very difficult to pursue this type of work online but could easily provide a good income if you qualified as a life coach and opened a practice.