Discomfort

QUESTION: Masters, all my life, I’ve never felt like I truly connected to my culture or place of birth. I also feel that the soul mate I’ll eventually end up with is in a foreign land as well. Despite being relatively well-travelled, several attempts to migrate overseas have always ended in failure. Right now, I’m just soul weary and wonder if there’ll be a way out of this in the future? ~Jaymee, Singapore

ANSWER: You have lapsed into a “poor me” state of thinking. You learn as much from what you consider as failures as you do from the successes. Not feeling “connected” to things is an indication to you that you intended for parts of this life to be done solo. But your desires are to be a part of something, a family, a country, or a soul mate combination. You feel a need for security, which you believe can only come from a union with others.

All souls are part of the Creative Force and have all the powers that entails. You don’t need anyone else. You can bring to yourself whatever it is you wish to experience. The energy in that part of the world is not the best for the body which you inhabit. The feeling to move elsewhere is due to this discomfort.

To successfully move you must see it as a solo event in which you set all the parameters. Visualize what it is that you desire, send that picture out to the universe, and then start looking for advertisements that fit your description. Accept that you can create this move and new employment.

Also, start spending more time loving the person you are. You have looked for love outside yourself and not tapped into the incredible source at your fingertips. You can only love another to the degree that you already love yourself. Start practicing connecting with that love within; it is extremely powerful.

Not all members of the opposite sex who would make fantastic life partners are members of your soul group. They may simply be traveling on the same path with the same objectives that resonate with your soul. Feel those that you come in contact with for this match.