Understanding relationships

May 28th, 2019

QUESTION: Masters I have been studying about romantic relationships, in particular feminine and masculine energy. I read that masculine energy is about action and feminine energy is about receiving and connecting to the emotions. Is it correct to say that the man should pursue the woman who should lean back and receive? Can I have more information about how this all works? What do we, as humans, still need to know and learn in order to have better and healthier relationships? ~Claudia, Portugal

ANSWER: The human body contains both masculine and feminine energy in different amounts. These energies are affected and enhanced by the awareness the soul has of its pre-determined lessons. If a soul has planned on exploring romantic love, it will have many ways to do so. One may be by varying the percentage of masculine versus feminine energy within the human body regardless of the apparent outward appearance of the sex of that body.

What you have read are the beliefs of the authors, who report an explanation of what their studies have revealed within a certain set of individuals. That will be impacted by the environment of the subjects, their religious and societal beliefs, and familial teachings. In other words, the findings cannot be universally applied in all groups of people.

Human bodies are not always subject to characteristics generally found in a particular sexual energy. You have seen feminine men and masculine women. Yet each may be engaged in what society regards as a normal male/female relationship. And by your beliefs, who had to pursue whom?

There is more involved in creating relationships than the amount of one sexual energy versus the other. What traits does each have? Is the woman forthright and the man shy and retiring? Is the man controlling and the woman seeking to be controlled? There is no absolute playbook to the perfect relationship.

All souls just need to be themselves. How do they feel about the other person? Would they like to be approached or do the approaching? Go inside and use your intuition and feelings to decide the best way for you to establish a connection. You will find that it even varies depending on the characteristics of the other person.

Which way is the right way?

May 21st, 2019

QUESTION: Masters, I have been following the signs the universe is giving me like a treasure hunt. It seems like miracles are generally overlooked. They are taking me somewhere good I know it but the gifts they are bringing contradict where I’m going. I would love more than anything to continue this journey but is it worth giving up what I’ve worked my whole life to gain? ~Keegan, US

ANSWER: The universe brings to a soul the things that it wished to experience. But the soul has total freedom of choice whether to accept them or not. You can change your direction during an incarnation at any time, at will.

The limiting factor in humanity is the ego mind and its adhered-to expectations. When you decide that you will accept one and only one possible direction, which is perfectly within your life plan, you disregard the assistance offered by your higher self and your guides. This is at your discretion.

On a spiritual journey, nothing is right or wrong. You may start and stop any activity and follow your intuition or your decided direction and still be learning about the journey of a soul.

You must ask yourself why you are here and what benefits you gain by the actions you take. When you depart this life, can you take with you any of the money or prestige you have worked so hard to gain? How do you “feel” about the miracles and the gifts? Do they fulfill you in a way that nothing else can? Have you learned all there is to gain from where you are now, and would you only be repeating the same lessons over and over?

You know that the choice is always yours and that you are a soul having a human experience to learn who you truly are. It is up to you to decide the method you follow. Pick and choose, go back and forth, until something just “clicks” and defines this life for you. Let your feelings, not your brain, be your map.

Contradictions

May 21st, 2019

QUESTION: Masters, I would appreciate your enlightenment about this: Why my higher self has been insisting me to start to share my wisdom? Did I think to do something specific before incarnated or any contract to channeling the guides from source dimension? Could you please clarify this or help me to understand how can I find a way to work with this? If it’s a lesson how can I overcome this, which lesson is this? What is preventing me to do this that I feel so strong in my heart, is it a belief? Please enlighten me. ~Fes, Canada

ANSWER: You are a creature of your beliefs. You have lived in a family and society where only things that are physical and scientifically proven had value. You have become enlightened about the fact that a human is much more than just its physical body and has a nonphysical aspect that has always existed and always will. As you have awakened to your higher self, you hear it clearly but do not believe all that it says to you.

A higher self is the nonphysical part of one’s soul that is not always in the awareness of the human consciousness. Some souls never hear it in their human form. It works in an advisory capacity once a connection is made. It has all the information your soul had before the amnesia of incarnation set in. It then works as a memory device, repeating to you what you had deemed important to remember during a particular phase of the human existence.

At the stage of your training where you reside, you had considered being a spokesperson for the spirits on the Other Side of the veil. Your higher self is giving you a wake-up call that, if you still choose to do that, it is time to begin. Having freedom of choice, you can do whatever you desire and tell your higher self to be quiet already. The only lesson involved here is the one concerning freedom to do as you wish.

Your difficulty in facilitating the messages from the Other Side is twofold. First, you don’t think you are worthy enough to carry messages from the realm of Source energy. Second, your beliefs tell you that this act is a physical impossibility for you.

Get over yourself. You would not be in this position if you were not advanced enough to have considered this a worthwhile situation before coming. To understand your ability to do this, you merely have to remember that you are a piece of Source, with all the powers and abilities that entails.

What you do is still up to you. Start with talking to your guides in meditation, asking for them to assist you in whatever direction you decide to go. Take baby steps, and only as far as you want to go.