Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters Please can you give me some guidance. Me and my husband are pretty sure he has Asperger’s. We are waiting a diagnosis. It makes sense to us now why he acts and thinks the way he does. It has caused me a lot of heartache and upset, and I now realize why I have depression and fibromyalgia. It’s a continuous battle with someone who has a different view on the world. I am always in some kind of stress mode dealing with it. Was this a pre-planned lesson? Was it a mutual plan to help each other or was it of my own making for my own benefit of learning? Is my husband being 100% honest and upfront with me about trying his best to get help and change? Can I deal with this in a better way? Or, is it time for me to move on? ~Jo, United Kingdom

ANSWER: Your lessons do include self-confidence and self-love using stress and stressors to set up most of your learning experiences. You are very empathic and take in the energy given off by those around you. You are an innate caregiver and persist in taking care of others even to your detriment. You are still trying to maintain the same degree of love for your husband that you had when you first fell for him.

No soul ever remains the same during their lifetime. You have grown apart from your husband through the choices each of you have made. It is time to start taking care of yourself and doing what you want to do and not what you feel you have to do.

Your husband enjoys negativity and getting responses out of those around him. He does not really dislike his current thought processes and isn’t doing much to evaluate and change his behavior. He is definitely not being truthful to you about his feelings and any attempts he is making to change himself because he is not unhappy with his current state.

His cavalier attitude is a major stressor for you and triggers mental and physical reactions that are harming your health. You have the freedom of choice to decide to remove yourself from this situation and find an environment where you can heal.

You have done everything you can to get him to understand what his actions are doing to you, but he just doesn’t really care. It is time to start honoring yourself and deciding how you want to live. In the spiritual sense nothing is right or wrong. Staying or leaving will both allow you to learn, but choosing another setting will allow you to get control of your emotions.

QUESTION: Masters I’ve been a very long-time addict. Now I’m addicted to food. It makes me feel sick. How can I overcome this addictive destructive power? My life is constantly changing. But this addiction seems to be very deep. How would I live without this? ~I., Finland

ANSWER: Your question of how you could possibility live without your addiction shows that you see it as part of your identity and therefore would not be yourself without it. That is sabotaging any effort you might put forward to destroy it and do away with that dependence. You are saying “I wish to have an addiction because it is my way of life.”

Each soul creates their own reality by developing beliefs as to what they accept as existing for them in their worlds. You are accepting that what you eat has nothing to do with what you choose but is something that controls your every move without conscious choice by you.

Since the food does not magically appear in your house and must be paid for if consumed outside the house, then you do have control over what you do. You have convinced yourself that you have no say. This is a belief that you have allowed to exist within your psyche and have never questioned. With all beliefs, you control which ones you accept and which ones you reject. You have succeeded in changing other addictive behavior, so start working on this one.

One of your life lessons has been exploring responsibility. You do everything you can to avoid taking responsibility for your actions, convincing yourself that they are just part of who you are and you can do nothing about them. Giving in to urges to eat is giving up all your power to the idea that you are addicted.

Before you take any action, such as reaching into that chip bag, remove the temptation by not purchasing it in the first place. When at a party, be totally aware of your actions. Don’t let your hands wander around the food without your permission. If you start going toward the food, ask yourself if you are hungry or just wanting something to do. Keep your hands occupied by carrying something in them so it is inconvenient to pick up food and feed yourself.

Create the beliefs you want – not just those you are used to having. Always be aware of what you have unconsciously become accustomed to doing. Live in the moment and do nothing you do not consciously choose to do.

QUESTION: Masters, I have conquered 50 years of depression, drama, and emotional agony after massive sexual abuse during childhood, youth into adulthood. Now, at age 70, I choose to live a happy life. I have forgiven myself and my abusers, give love and inspire others whenever I have an opportunity. I wish I could manifest financial independence as well. It seems to me that every time when I am about to come into money, it is somehow sabotaged. Same thing with people in my life, I don’t seem to be capable of close and intimate relationships. Am I doing something wrong, or did I decide as a soul to miss out on these great experiences? ~Brigitte, US

ANSWER: The whole question for you is what you will allow yourself to bring into your world. While you have forgiven yourself for the choices you made before coming, you have not gone back to the basics and accepted that you are none other than a soul having a physical experience.

That means that you are a piece of Source energy and have all the same powers and abilities that exist within Source energy. You are all powerful, all creative, and all knowing, but only if you accept and believe that you have those qualities.

One of your lessons, which you have not completed, is that you are entitled to use your essential essence of Source energy to continue living this particular human existence and making it what you will. The first step to clearly seeing yourself as a piece of Source is to love yourself. You don’t have to like everything that has happened and is happening to and around you, but you need at least to love the fact that you had the courage to come to Earth and go through everything you chose to experience.

While you think you have forgiven and made right all the horrific things that were a part of your lessons, you have not gotten rid of the physically embedded negativity that accompanied the human actions. You are still flinching whenever approached, because even under the guise of a friendly exterior, your abusers had malicious intent. You don’t trust it won’t happen again.

Start your new life by visualizing a perfectly safe companion. Be yourself without the armor you unconsciously erect. See others as friendly, harmless, fellow citizens of planet Earth. Remind yourself that you do not have to re-experience any of your earlier lessons. Have a mantra that you deserve to be loved by others as much as you love yourself, and that you can be financially stable. Create what you desire.