Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I met the person I’m in love with in college. From the beginning we felt a strong connection and know each other very well. We had an almost relationship this year, but decided it was not the right time, because we were not achieving progress in other areas of our lives. Sometimes I feel that he will never be ready for a relationship. I would like to have a larger vision of our contract. I have trouble trusting people. ~G. P. T., Brazil

ANSWER: You do not have a contract for a relationship with this person. When it comes to engaging in romance during a human experience, rarely does the soul make a contract. The reason for this is that a contract restricts the opportunities that can enrich the lifetime. Each soul has freedom of choice to determine what they want to do and when. They may change their mind at any time and go in another direction.

Your love is very immature and always wants someone to tell him what to do and how to do it. That is one of the reasons that he is not progressing with his lessons and lifework in this incarnation. He never chooses to take responsibility for the few decisions that he does make on his own. It is much easier to always blame someone else – whoever has urged a certain decision – for the matter not turning out as he wanted it to.

His progress is non-existent at this time and may never change. He is not a sharer but rather selfish in his plans. You will not be able to get him to commit to any relationship where you have a say in how it goes. He wants total control. If this is how you see spending the rest of your life, then wait around until he can make a decision. He also takes energy away from you when you are together so that you feel tired and confused. It is a part of his makeup to live off the energy of others since it is so easy.

It is time to ask yourself what you see for a future professionally, socially, and spiritually. Learn to seek out your feelings about a situation and see if it is loving and comfortable. If a scenario is one-sided and not sharing, you will not have a say in the relationship. Honor your strengths. Do only what makes you feel marvelous. Bring to yourself that which you desire; some things come to you for you to determine that they are not what will enhance your life’s journey. Don’t be afraid to look elsewhere.

QUESTION: Masters what is this fear that I’m stuck in and can’t face? I am learning to trust and I know that gratitude is the answer – but there is something that prevents me, that says that I’m not worthy or capable. Deep feeling of being a victim – or is it something else?  I’m tired and scared of letting go. Controlling is the lesson but this fear just continues. What is the role of my mother and father? ~Anita, Finland

ANSWER: In the position you occupy at this time, you need to ask yourself: whom are you learning to trust, and to whom are you feeling gratitude? You are a soul having a human experience. As a soul, you are a piece of Source energy and have the same powers and abilities as Source. You have total freedom of choice to decide what your life will be like. If you need to trust anyone, it should be yourself and that part of your soul which is always there giving you support. Any gratitude should be for the fantastic job you allow yourself to do in order to learn while on Earth.

You haven’t dealt with your chosen lessons of lack of self-worth and self–confidence. You constantly allow yourself to think you cannot accomplish what is in front of you. What you fear letting go of is all the beliefs by which you have been restricted. Never be afraid to let go of non-serving beliefs. You have the freedom to choose how your life will be directed. The sense of being a victim comes from feeling you have no choices – in fact, you just haven’t exercised them yet.

Your parents are around to set up the part of your belief system that makes you feel so inferior. They are ultra-strong and controlling people, and that makes you believe you can never be free of their reach or match them in confidence. You don’t understand being controlled or manipulated. You allow a lot of people in your life to dictate to you for fear of the results if you decide for yourself rather than letting them call the shots.

When you can accept that you have all the powers and abilities of Source, and then believe and turn that belief into a knowing, you will be able to take responsibility for all aspects of your life. Increase that trust in yourself, that you are in charge. Be grateful that you can make decisions that comply with your wishes. Don’t do anything unless it feels totally right for you. Love yourself and this journey you are on.

QUESTION: Masters can you please provide some insight & guidance regarding the “3 Days of Darkness” – also referred to as “3 hours of darkness” that is predicted to occur in 2017. What, if any, preparation should be made? ~Joan, USA

ANSWER: The three days of darkness is a belief of a minor segment of the Catholic Church. It has been attributed to sections of the Bible but is not contained therein. It arose from prophesies of a number of Catholic channels, mostly during the 19^th century. The supposed date of its occurrence has changed throughout the time that people have believed in its existence.

Depending on the source, it is supposed to be a winnowing out of the impure wherein about two-thirds of the population of your planet will cease being in physical form and get whatever judgment they have brought upon themselves. There has never been much agreement as to the disposition of these souls – the concentration has always been on those pure of heart who shall remain. It is said that those souls will not even be aware that anything is happening.

As with all religious teachings, societal judgments, and familial traditions, what each soul accepts as pertaining to them will control the person’s experience. You bring to yourself what you need to experience and therefore create your own reality. If you believe you are in for three days of darkness, you will bring that to yourself in one form or another.

Each soul has an impact only on him- or herself. If you feel this belief is important to you, then you will see it to fruition, but if no one else is on board with the belief, it may affect only you. It could cause fears, depression, anxiety, or other emotional upheaval.

Remember the turn of the century from 1999 to 2000 when a large majority of computer geeks predicted all programming on computers would stop because of the end code 999? So few people were caught up in that scenario that the day came and went with computers humming along. And then there was the “end of the world” – December 21, 2012 – predicted by Nostradamus and the ancient Mayan and Egyptian calendars. A segment of the population went underground and the survivalists stockpiled supplies. Some people jammed churches praying for their immortal souls. It was only an astrological phenomenon that always occurs about every 26,000 years.

See what beliefs resonate with your soul. Create your world based upon those feelings, and don’t let anyone tell you what you should believe.