Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I met a lovely man 4 years ago, and moved in with him. I found it hard because his adult children still live with him, and there was pressure to go to his parents for dinner 3 times a week, which I didn’t enjoy. I moved out in order to have my own life back. I received much disapproval for this, but I didn’t care because in my heart I know what I need. I don’t feel this man really loves me in a meaningful way – he gets annoyed when I talk about spiritual things. Do I expect too much from my relationships? I’m learning to be what I need for myself, to love myself, but I still want certain qualities in a partner. Should I let go of the idea of having an “ideal mate?” ~Katalin, Canada

ANSWER: An “ideal mate” is different for everyone and every circumstance. You have used very specific expectations to define yours. Expectations are very limiting because they don’t take into consideration the wishes of anybody but yourself. Add another person and expectations are impossible to fulfill.

You have been desperate in the past to have a mate – so much so that you have jumped at the first offer to pair up with someone. This “lovely man” was great when not in his environment. He didn’t give you a good idea of what you would be facing if you moved in with him. His whole life is his family and mama is still calling all the shots. He would do very well in a commune or group-living situation.

This man does not know what monogamous love is about. He does not differentiate between love for his parents, his children, or his woman. One is just as important as the other. You convinced yourself, prior to moving in, that he would change his allegiance once you were there. As you admit, he did not.

This is all about honoring yourself and what you need to feel good about yourself. Don’t give import to anything but your own feelings in this matter. There are other men out there who would enter a sharing relationship with you if you defined what you wanted before you began. Be brutally honest with yourself and with them before you commit.

QUESTION: Masters it is fairly accepted that the soul exits through the crown chakra, and I believe does so by the quantum physics principle of Pair Annihilation. Positron(s) and electron(s) collide and a Photon(s) is(are) created. Hence our true state is pure photon energy again and we boogie back to our spirit state and level we came from. I’m pretty sure we enter the human by the reverse process of ‘pair addition’. We initially settle in the Pineal Gland. BUT when we enter the human somewhere between 4th month and 8th month I doubt chakras exist yet. Do we enter initially thru the Crown? Chakras are an energy network (as is our soul) aligned along the spine and also controls our external energy field and human aura. So big question!! Does our soul create and assist the chakra energy field which then of course communicates with The ALL (Source)? ~Sam, USA

ANSWER: You are stuck in a need to explain the unexplainable. It is impossible to describe the spiritual realm using only the concepts of the physical phenomena demonstrated within the duality of planet Earth. It is said within the scientific community that it is possible to substantiate whatever ideas you have from somewhere within the vast network of workable theories. But those theories rely on physical factors, not nonphysical, unreproducible exercises.

The soul, which you have doing various steps in your theory, is not a self-contained entity. The soul is amorphous energy that wills itself to be wherever it chooses to be. It can be in front of you one minute, disappear, and be in Siberia the next. Or it can split itself into particles and be present in multiple locations simultaneously. It is sentient with an unending intellectual aspect, which the photons and electrons you speak of are not.

Every soul has total freedom of choice, so when and how they choose to animate their chosen body is up to them. Some souls enter the body shortly after conception and some just immediately prior to coming through the birth canal. They slide into, or merely appear within, the organs of the body that need to function in order for the body to be viable.

Chakras are an expansion of the soul’s energy reaching out to the nonphysical world to maintain contact. The kundalini is aligned alongside the spine; the chakras are positioned in places to aid various bodily systems such as heart, throat, solar plexus, etc.

Another energy field around a body, where a soul is in residence, is the Merkaba or light body. It consists of two counter-rotating tetrahedrons. These are controlled via intention during meditation and, when fully activated, can be used as a vehicle to travel between dimensions. Some people use them as a means of ascension.

What you believe is what creates your reality. You have total freedom of choice – so go with what beliefs resonate with you the most at any one time, and don’t be afraid to change them when they no longer serve you.

QUESTION: Masters I have always been quiet and have struggled to socialize with peers. Lately I have strongly felt that the world can be a tough place, I find human nature to be perplexing and I believe this is why I struggle to connect with others. I feel as though I am on a different level from everyone which is causing me to feel down. I am fearful that my quietness is causing me to suffer at this time in my life. Will I eventually blossom and leave my silence behind to live a fulfilled life? ~Anna, Ireland

ANSWER: When you think of associating with another individual, you analyze all the possible implications and reactions you think they might have. You have a need for control, or at least knowing everything that is about to occur. This keeps you so involved in your theoretical mind that the opportunity to interact with the other person passes before the union is realized. Your “quietness,” as you call it, is a hesitation to take yourself out into the world.

People are perplexing to you because you see them doing things other than you imagined they should want to do. Again, you are overanalyzing and attributing traits to others based on your own beliefs. Lighten up. The difference you perceive between you and others has to do with the restrictions you place on yourself.

Start slowly in approaching others. Find a comfortable location – a social group, library, bookstore, coffee shop – and exchange friendly greetings at first. Continue to frequent the location until you have exchanged pleasantries with several people multiple times.

Next, start a conversation; if you have noticed they engage in a particular thing, talk about that. Don’t judge them; don’t rate or grade them in comparison to your beliefs, either. After a while it will begin to feel comfortable, non-threatening, as if you have known them for a long time.

Each person creates their own reality. It does not just “come” to you; you have to work at it. All the buds are present; let them start opening.