Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters, I was raised in a hostile environment of hatred, disrespect, lack of love, and lack of moral values. I try to rebuild my life from the distance away from these relatives to preserve my sanity and at least trust in life. But, time after time, these relatives cast me spells so that I give up on my dreams, or that everything goes wrong in my life and finally return to them, humiliated. Masters, what do I need to do to get rid of them and what do I need to learn? ~Yvi, Brazil

ANSWER: You are not returning because of spells cast upon you by anyone but because you have little faith in your own abilities to make decisions. Any time that things don’t go the way you think they should, you put your tail between your legs, like a beaten puppy, and return to a place that is predictable to you. It is called a comfort zone. Although you don’t like what happens there, at least you know the extent of the displeasure to which you will be subjected.

When you return, you play into their manipulation of your life. You cannot be in their presence without being surrounded by their negative characteristics. They are not even attempting to understand why they feel the way they do, and everything is as they choose. They do not know that there is another aspect of life, which is unconditional love and spiritual growth.

Souls create their own reality by the belief systems on which they choose to structure their lives. Since your relatives are on the opposite side of the duality from what you seek, you have to decide what you want your life to be or just accept that you are going to be under their control.

You are a piece of Source energy and, as such, have all the powers and abilities of Source. But until you accept that as a truth, you will continue to feel as you do right now. First accept it as a possibility. Then believe it can be used by you to change your environment. Visualize what you desire and then know you have the ability to manifest and create that vision. Then start acting to put it all into play.

Put your fears and doubts aside and step up to take the responsibility of your decisions. This is your life – not an extension of your relatives’ life. Make it so.

QUESTION: Masters, how can I manifest a more complex, convoluted, intricate outcome rather than a simple one? As in my case, I impact people with music and love over the internet. I wish I could impact more people in real life as well but in this case I need way more money than I really have, more magnetism, more people involved and a promising project in hands. In my private life, my mom prevents me from leaving my comfort zone and I’m too lazy and impatient to try anything major. I also live in a small city and I can’t even find a small group or a small office in order to begin my project. How can I visualize such a complicated outcome without getting lost in the process? ~Jorge, Brazil

ANSWER: The first step in progressing through any phase of development is learning to be realistic. It is great to lie in bed and dream of having everything exactly the way you desire it to be – but that doesn’t happen without a ton of work.

You have already admitted that you are lazy, so how can you even think that you could accomplish something before you are willing to invest all your time and energy into making it happen? It all starts and ends with your efforts.

When you are in school enrolling in a course in a subject that interests you, it doesn’t automatically make you an expert in the area. You have to spend time investigating the entire topic, learning what is necessary for success, and then continuing to study and work until it becomes second nature to you. You have done none of that.

You are just exiting the stage where everything was done for you as a child and you had no responsibility to fend for yourself. The idea that your mother is preventing you from leaving your comfort zone is ridiculous. Of course, she is doing what she thinks you need, and what she feels you are capable of handling on your own. But, buddy, every soul has freedom of choice to be where they want to be and to do what they want to do – they just have to act.

Imaging bigger dreams with more particulars isn’t sufficient to have it appear. It is continued work and faith in yourself that will get you to where you want to be. Manifestation is about using your intention and effort to complete the desired accomplishment. Manifestation does not jump from imaging to finished product in one felt swoop. Just as a building has to be erected in stages, so does an intricate life.

QUESTION: Masters starting a new job I met Chris and I felt like my heart chakra is overfilling with minty coolness. I observed interest but no more. Our paths crossed occasionally, and I have noticed his gaze, but he was constantly avoiding staying in same room with me. When our eyes met it felt like there is a strong energy developing, I could hardly hook off it. I keep seeing this person in my dreams, they are becoming more romantic with time. I have been in a romantic relationship with someone else and I believe, I have let this go. I feel like he is one of my soulmates. I would like to know if this is past life connection or this is something else. Will I meet my life partner in this life after all romantic experiences I had and the way I am now? ~Maija UK

ANSWER: You have intimidated the poor man and he is frightened of your intent and what you might demand of him. His initial interest was just in learning who the new employee was – nothing more. He feels your intensity and he wants nothing to do with it; that is why he never stays in the same area with you.

In the meantime, you have built up a fantasy about your relationship. You are not soul mates and have never spent previous lives together. Sometimes someone just tickles your fancy so much you create a world that does not exist – this is what you have been doing.

He seems safe and wonderful to you because you have never spent any time together so you can’t see that he is not compatible with you. Your dreams are like the ones envisioned around a handsome famous person whom you feel you just have to make yours. Stop wasting time on a person who is not interested.

This is different from prior love experiences because it has been all one-sided. You are a slave to your imagined expectations of a partnership. It is time to take a good look at the way you have been behaving and understand that a relationship takes two actively participating individuals.