Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters some years ago I owned a car which I got 2nd hand in good condition (I think). At some point later, I was shocked when a psychic friend told us that she could see the car had an accident and the family that was driving the car had died but they are still thinking that they are going on a holiday. She quickly helped them get HOME successfully. Could you share a light on how this could have happened? If my psychic friend hadn’t seen the car, could the family involved with the accident be trapped in that state of “going on a holiday” for eternity? I’m under the impression that our spirit guides and passed-over loved ones would be around to guide us near time of death, why this family were not helped? Is there anything that we can do to make sure we don’t get trapped this way? ~Pieter Singapore

ANSWER:  Every soul has freedom of choice, and that includes whether they readily choose to return Home after a lifetime as a human. If a soul has not worked on realizing they are a soul who is merely having a human experience, they believe that their human existence is everything.

Being unaware of the glorious unconditional love of Source, they cling to the things they cherished while in their bodies. Familial ties can be extremely strong and a factor in souls’ deciding they need to remain on, or near, the Earth.

One of the members of this family became separated at the time of their deaths, and the remainder were seeking to find them. They thought they might have inadvertently left them at their vacation site and sought to return to reunite. As a group, they were unaware of their passing from the physical to the energetic and remained in a loop of travel.

While it is true that spirit guides and past family members are able to assist a soul in understanding their situation, the soul has to accept the possibility. If you have never seen something, you will not see it unless you allow yourself to do so.

Your friend was able to get the family’s attention and bring the missing member of the family to them. The accepting member was then able to convince them they were deceased and could go into unconditional love.

You need not fear getting trapped. You understand that you are a soul and that your Home is on the Other Side. You will not desire to stay in a limbo of inactivity but will ask your guides and loved ones to accompany you on your final journey in this lifetime. Intention directs every experience.

QUESTION: Masters, I have started to see on the astral level and there are souls who have not realized they have passed away. Some of them keep acting the same as in their lives on Earth. They are confused, and they come to my aura. I tried to send them to the light but some of them did not want to go and they grab my hand and don’t want to go further. Those souls are everywhere and sometimes I “hear” their talk. Actually, they have same personality as when on Earth and they can feel emotions, like fear. Why there are souls who stay in this level? Why they don’t keep going to the light? And why I can see, feel and talk to them? ~Amalie, Finland

ANSWER: You have the ability to see and communicate with these souls because you choose to do so. You had decided that, sometime along your present journey, you would like to offer assistance to those who don’t realize who they are, souls who had chosen to have a human experience. You can do this since you have become enlightened with the knowledge of your essence as a soul while you remain on Earth in your human form.

You understand the blissfulness of Home and its unconditional love. Souls who have not come into this awareness during their time as humans are still controlled by the negative thoughts and ideas they believe are their only option. They cling to what they think they know, which is the belief system of reward and punishment, or karma, for what they have done during their life.

Their reality is that it is safer to remain on Earth since they don’t want to be subjected to “hell”. They are still in touch with all the emotions of the human body because they have not completely released their hold on it. They feel safe in the negativity in which they lived and cannot imagine unconditional love.

Some just need a little push, such as telling them they can move on, and others need more assistance to overcome their doubts and fears. Whether they move or not is completely up to them.

Something that helps make up their minds is suggesting they will be reunited with loved ones who predeceased them. You can even ask those friends and lovers to come and get them. Another helpful tactic is suggesting they ask their guides to accompany them across.

Some of these souls are remaining because they think there are things they have to do, such as help one left behind or get revenge for some wrong done to them. These souls are more difficult to assist because they are adamant in their beliefs.

Do whatever feels comfortable to you, even if that is nothing. If it ever becomes too much for you, you have the ability to shut off the connection.

QUESTION: Masters I can feel spirit guides around me I see the signs of their presence how can I build a strong connection with them? I want to talk to them, get their guidance to have a pain free successful life as an independent individual. ~Humaira, UK

ANSWER: Intention is the connection. But, that said, intention without action is nothing. You must initiate the conversation. And don’t have expectations of the form that it will take. They may connect in a normal human conversational way, or they may give you other signs such as sounds or lights, or direct you to outside sources.

Already you have expectations that a connection to your guides will assure you of a pain-free, successful life. That may be so – but it might also not be what you planned for this life before coming. Guides will never tell you exactly what to do; they will merely advise you on accomplishing the possibilities you chose.

Being an independent individual doesn’t mean needing the assistance of your guides. It means taking responsibility for the decisions in your life that direct you through it. Each soul creates their own reality in which to learn their chosen lessons. Letting others tell you what to do or what you need is counterproductive to learning.

Get out of your thinking mind, which is filled with the thoughts, ideas, and demands of others. Always look at life through your feeling heart. Is this action one you may learn from? Is this something you need to do to become more aware of who you are?

Stop wanting someone else to validate your life for you. You have all the answers, so start listening to yourself.