Masters of the Spirit World

QUESTION: Masters I’m in an interesting relationship where I’m learning new ways into a woman’s heart and mind by understanding and feeling emotions, my own and hers. I try to do my best and build trust, openness, and new ways of being innocent by being vulnerable, but it looks like I fail all the time and I just fade away from her, or nothing is enough what I do or how I be. Is there a block in my chakras or in my finer bodies which affect this? Is there imbalance in my feminine and masculine energies and how great? Can masters guide me how to attune better emotionally with her and with myself? What I need to work on? ~Arttu, Finland

ANSWER: You are being instructed in someone else’s belief systems. It is true that each human being has masculine energy, which is strong, protective, and demonstrative. But they also have feminine energy, which allows them to be tender, soft, and emotional. The degree of each and how much you accept and use in your life are determined by you and the circumstances. There are no right or wrong answers.

The percentages should be determined by your feelings and not by what your partner would like you to be. If you take all your clues from another, you have given up your power to them to say who and what you are in this life. You are being a puppet to their wishes.

Why do you feel you need to be innocent? That is equated with uninformed and ignorant when it comes to human characteristics. You have worked hard to come into awareness of self, and you do not have to ignore your hard-won wisdom in order to please someone else.

When you say you have failed, you are picking up that your partner is not satisfied that you have met their expectations. Why should you duplicate their expectations? You are a different individual and an opposite sex. You are not blocked; you are just sensitive to your own strong feelings of essence, and they conflict with an entirely feminine energy.

If you still wish to continue converting yourself to a masculine-feminine, there is nothing wrong with that. Just do it because you desire to be other than you are, not because you are being told you should. It should always feel right to you, not as if failing to meet her desires is a shortcoming on your part.

You need to work on sensing your inner intuition of what is right for yourself in that body.

QUESTION: Masters, I need to know why I feel so different from everyone in this world. I understand from a deep level about this world’s origin and the purpose we are here, but as far as getting to know my real self, my soul, I feel like I have a block. It’s like I’m not supposed to have memories from past lives, or psychic abilities, or even transcendent experiences. Yet I have an urge to know, to experience, which I don’t know where it’s coming from. I want to know who I really am, and no psychic or channel has been able to see through me. I have transcended suffering and frustration, I understand to a deep, intuitive level, yet the experiences I want to have are simply not occurring. I feel like I’m not supposed to be here, not because I hate earth, but because I feel like I don’t belong. ~Sil, Argentina

ANSWER: First off, how do you know you feel so different from everyone else in the world? How many other bodies have you inhabited? If you are relying on what you have heard others say, how do you know they have the same frame of reference you possess? No soul comes into a human body knowing who they are, having memories of past lives, with the ability to use any psychic powers they may have previously developed, or the knowledge of why they chose that life. Those are all blocked by amnesia.

Your urge to know and experience comes from inside and your desire to open all the locked doors, but this can only happen if you work at it without looking for an easy way out. Just wanting something to happen will not make it happen without your doing the work to create the opportunity.

You need to examine your feelings about your current state, like not belonging here and being continually blocked from reaching understanding. These are attached to life lessons of not being good enough, not having faith in yourself, and taking back your power to make decisions, which you have ceded to others.

Examine your status as a piece of Source energy. Understand the powers and abilities you possess with which you can bring to yourself the things you want to experience. Know that you can create what you need if you have the faith in yourself that it is available to you. Stop making excuses, as you have here, and get to work. The sooner you do, the faster you will reverse your results.

QUESTION: Masters it’s weird because I can see myself happily with the same gender? (in a crush or romantic way) but it’s sad that it might not come true. Additionally, how do crushes and romantic things and any other even non-romantic relationships work in the spirit world? Will those feelings be like on earth or different? ~S, USA

ANSWER: When the soul having a human existence goes Home to the “spirit” world, it returns to its energetic form. Souls do not have a physical body. They do not have a gender. They do not have nerve endings to feel. Most of their contacts are achieved through a “knowing” where the thoughts and ideas of other souls are just within their grasp.

That does not mean that they cannot project a physical countenance to another, but that is too much trouble most of the time because it ties them down to one place, while otherwise, souls are able to transport and be in more than one location at a time. This is hard to imagine for those who currently recollect only the existence they now live, in a defined body with a defined sex.

One of the reasons a soul incarnates is to have a physical body with all its built-in sensing devices, nerves, emotions, responses to feelings, and chemical substances. At Home they exist in beautiful, unconditional love and need nothing more. They come into humanity to understand the freedom of choice to choose positive over negative types of energies.

Relationships are a big segment of the life lessons available to the human soul. The dealings with family, teachers, authorities, and sexual partners are all areas of study. At Home, without the physical sensing devices, knowledge and understanding is all that is of concern.

The first part of your query shows some of the aspects a soul may choose to explore while within the physical shell. On a spiritual level, nothing is right or wrong, nor is it encouraged or condemned.